Thursday, January 19, 2012

We all in the same gang!

So during the holiday season there was not much “work” going on at work. We spent a lot of time discussing important issues like Yandy Vs Chrissy on love and hip hop, Is Nancy Jones a crack head and the necessity or lack thereof for 3D televisions.
On one particularly lazy day we discussed the phenom that is the Jordan throwback release.
Many of my co workers immediately turned their noses up and made statements about how “they need to spend their money better” and that’s hwy “they are on welfare” and “living check to check” and they don’t own anything and never will.

Okay. I know that Jordans are a “hood “phenomenon but statistics show most of us are living check to check with no liquid or ownership of assets. WE don’t own our houses, our cars and we don’t have the 6 months worth of bills cushion in our savings account that is recommended by most financial planners.
Yet many of us educated new negroes don’t think twice about 50.00 brunches, 50,000 luxury car and shoes and purses well above the going rate for new Jordans. We want to believe that the fact that we have careers and salaries above the poverty line makes us different and we justify our choices as “investments” more so than frivolous spending.
It doesn’t.
I’ve noticed that the new young, black “middle class” loves to look down their noses at ‘them” in the hood and sometimes its deserved but a lot of times its not. Many of us are only 1 or 2 paychecks away from being at the food stamp office.
It wasn’t hood folks borrowing above their means and buying houses they couldn’t afford.

Im just saying, a bad decision is a bad decision regardless. Just as check to check is check to check regardless if its 8.25 an hour or 60,000 a year; If you miss that check you both are in the same position.
Assed the f!ck out.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Lets Try This Again....

So the last year has been crazy for me . A new job, marital stress and trouble, sadness, death, life and plenty of crazy in between.
2011 was most definitely a year of change for me. And I plan to keep moving forward in 2012. I have realized that I tend to not push myself. I have gotten by on doing just enough and that habit is starting to catch up with me.
So I'm going to start again this year. I am going to write more, to do more and push myself harder. I also plan to learn how to properly gangsta walk in stilettos.
Its harder than you think.
I have several tough decisions that need to be made in the coming months and I think blogging will help me clear my head to make better decisions.
The first of which is whether to do points plus or nutria system ( I am not a Mariah fan so no jenny craig).
I'm thinking I can follow the points plus weight watchers plan and use nutrisystem food.
Then Ill lose double the weight!!!!

Anyway, I hope you guys had great holidays. I will have to tell you about the holiday performance of my pimp/rapping cousin in Friday foolishness.